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Engagement: “Boss” or “Coach”?

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Dan Docherty
Dan Docherty
Chief Coaching Officer, Braintrust
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Dan Docherty
Chief Coaching Officer, Braintrust

About

Dan Docherty is the Chief Coaching Officer at Braintrust and author of NeuroCoaching. He applies the neuroscience of trust, communication, and behavior change to how leaders develop their teams. Dan partners with CHROs, CLOs, and executive teams at enterprise organizations to build coaching cultures that stick.

Experience Highlights

  • NeuroCoaching methodology and leadership development
  • Manager-as-coach program design
  • Executive coaching and succession planning
  • Building coaching cultures at enterprise scale

Areas of Expertise

NeuroCoaching Leadership Development Executive Coaching Manager Effectiveness Psychological Safety Talent Development Behavior Change L&D Strategy

Over the past four years, I have been studying, researching, and learning about the complex topic of employee engagement within US corporations. As a coach, let me ask you two quick questions: Does a lack of employee engagement keep you up at night? And are you actively involved in impacting it?

Our blog is all about mastering the customer and coaching conversation. Have you ever noticed the title is not "Mastering the Boss Conversation?" That is not an accident. Gallup just published new data on employee engagement, and the research points to a precise insight that should matter to every leader reading this. High-Development Cultures (HDCs) train their managers on new ways of managing — shifting from a culture of "boss" to a culture of "coach." Does the following formula resonate with you?

HDCs: Engagement + Productivity + Performance + Profitability = Sustainability

The Engagement Crisis Nobody Talks About

Gallup has been tracking engagement levels since 2000. In February 2020, they published an article titled "4 Factors Driving Record-High Employee Engagement in the U.S." by Jim Harter. The headline sounds like good news. The data tells a harder story.

Historically, employee engagement rates have hovered around 30%. That is correct: according to Gallup, 70% of U.S. employees are "not engaged" in the workplace. Of that group, 18% are "actively disengaged." Gallup defines "not engaged" as those who are psychologically unattached to their work and company — people who put in time, but not energy or passion. These employees show up, contribute the minimum required, and keep one eye on the exit. Now, think about your team. Is it possible that 7 out of 10 of your people fit this description?

70%
of U.S. employees are "not engaged" or "actively disengaged" at work, according to Gallup's long-running engagement tracking data.

What "Not Engaged" Actually Means

Before we look at what is changing, it helps to sharpen the definition. A complementary lens on engagement comes from the academic research of Schaufeli, Bakker, and colleagues (2006), who define engagement as a work-related state of mind characterized by three qualities:

  • Vigor: High levels of energy and mental resilience while working.
  • Dedication: A sense of significance, enthusiasm, inspiration, pride, and challenge.
  • Absorption: Being fully concentrated and deeply engrossed in one's work.

Read those three again and ask yourself: how many of your people are operating at vigor, dedication, and absorption on a consistent basis? For most leaders, the honest answer is unsettling. And that unsettlement is exactly the right starting point.

The Gallup Record Worth Examining Closely

When I first clicked into the Gallup article, I expected dramatic progress. I wanted to see a chart where the old marks had been obliterated. The great economic expansion we experienced seemed like it should have produced significantly higher engagement. What I found was more modest.

The article reports that the percentage of "not engaged" employees moved from 70% to 65%. The "actively disengaged" share declined from 18% to 13%. Yes, this is movement in the right direction. But the fact that we are celebrating a five-point improvement over two decades should give every coach and people leader pause. We have a long way to go — and modest optimism is not rocket fuel for the change we need.

Four Factors Driving the Change

Gallup attributes the progress to organizations committed to building High-Development Cultures. There are four factors at the core of what these organizations do differently:

  1. HDCs are CEO and board initiated.
  2. HDCs educate managers on new ways of managing — moving from a culture of "boss" to "coach."
  3. HDCs practice company-wide communication.
  4. HDCs hold managers accountable.

All four matter. But for those of us in coaching and leadership development, factor two is the one where we have the greatest direct leverage.

The Factor Coaches Can Actually Influence

The shift from boss to coach is not a soft aspiration. It is an organizational design choice with measurable consequences. When managers operate as bosses, they extract performance through authority. When managers operate as coaches, they activate performance through relationship. The outcomes are not equivalent.

Boyatzis, Smith, and colleagues (2019) describe the coaching relationship as "a facilitative or helping relationship with the purpose of achieving some type of change, learning, or a new level of individual or organizational performance." That definition points to something important: coaching is not about telling people what to do. It is about creating the conditions in which people change, grow, and perform at levels they could not reach alone.

As coaches, we can actively influence how managers see their role. The question is whether we are giving them the mindset, the language, and the practical frameworks to make that shift — or whether we are sending them back into the organization with a two-day workshop and hoping the change holds.

From Boss to Coach: The Mind-Shift That Changes Everything

What would change in your conversations with managers if you incorporated this coaching mindset? The shift is not cosmetic. It requires a fundamental rethinking of what it means to activate performance in another person.

A boss asks: Did you hit the number? A coach asks: What got in the way, and what do you need to move forward?

A boss defines success through compliance. A coach defines success through development. A boss manages the output. A coach develops the person who produces the output.

This does not mean accountability disappears. High-Development Cultures hold managers accountable — that is factor four in the Gallup framework. The difference is that the accountability is embedded in a relationship of trust and genuine development rather than surveillance and correction.

HDC
High-Development Cultures link manager-as-coach training directly to measurable improvements in employee engagement, productivity, and retention — per Gallup's research.

In Leadership, a .300 Average Is Not Enough

With baseball spring training each year, we are reminded that a .300 batting average over a season can get a player to the All-Star Game. Held over a career, it can earn a seat in the Hall of Fame. But business is not baseball. We cannot celebrate being right 30% of the time and call it excellence.

Real transformation and sustainability come from getting the best out of our people each and every day. That requires a learning agenda — a deliberate, ongoing commitment to facilitating change in the individual. When that change takes root, performance follows. Not as a mandate. As a result.

The data tells us where we are. It is up to us as coaches to close the gap. If you are thinking about what a more intentional coaching culture could look like inside your organization, we are worth a conversation.

References

Boyatzis, R. E., et al. (2019). Helping people change: Coaching with compassion for lifelong learning and growth. Harvard Business Review Press.

Schaufeli, W. B., et al. (2006). "The measurement of work engagement with a short questionnaire: A cross-national study." Educational and Psychological Measurement, 66(4), 701–716.

About the Author: Dan Docherty is the Chief Coaching Officer at Braintrust and the author of NeuroCoaching. He works with CHROs, CLOs, and executive teams across financial services, insurance, life sciences, software, manufacturing, and private equity to apply the neuroscience of trust and communication to how leaders develop their people. Connect with Dan at dan.docherty@braintrustgrowth.com or reach him directly on LinkedIn.

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